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everyoursjamiemoriarty:

ngl i get really upset when people try to say that grays and demis don’t belong in the ace/aro spectrum like no you know what you don’t get to decide who belongs in my group and that you get to kick people out otherwise i’m going to have to kick jerks out for trying to exclude others just trying to find safe spaces and acceptance.  If you’re not alloromantic/sexual, you are totally welcome, join the club friends

Posted Vor 15 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 32 Anmerkungen
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Anonym asked: What does it mean if someone is demisexual, I'm not trying to be rude. Just want to learn more about sexuality.x

raisesomehale:

Demisexuality in the simplest of terms is basically “halfway between” asexual and sexual. I say this because, while I (as a demisexual) do feel sexual attraction, it’s ONLY after I form an  ”emotional connection” with someone. (basically I gotta get to know a dude before I feel even REMOTELY sexual attracted to him.)

And while some people feel sexual attraction towards some random dude/chick walking down the street, I can ADMIRE their hotness but I don’t feel sexual attraction like /at all/ (it’s just not there man ya gotta spill your heart out for me to be attracted to you. Ok you don’t but you get the point.)

Like, I can look at Tyler Hoechlin and Dylan O’brien and be like “damn they fine” but I’m not sexually attracted to them because I don’t KNOW them, does that make sense? Like honestly if they asked me to jump in their beds I wouldn’t because that sort of attraction just isn’t there

Idk it’s kinda like I’m attracted to people’s personalities. Definitely keeps the douchebags from breaking my heart, amiright? ;D

Posted Vor 16 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 45 Anmerkungen
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perritoprincesa:

MY ANACONDA DONT WANT NONE bc we just met and I’m demisexual thank you for understanding

Posted Vor 17 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 33 Anmerkungen
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Demisexual PSA

geekhyena:

If you are tentatively dating a demisexual person, and are hoping that they develop feelings for you, constantly asking “are you attracted to me now? Any idea when you will be? I really like you! Are you attracted to me now? How about now?” is NOT the way to go about it. It shows you don’t get how demisexuality works and just winds up pissing the demisexual person off.

This has been a PSA about not acting like an asshole

Posted Vor 25 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 41 Anmerkungen
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http://intheowlery.tumblr.com/post/91417654318

intheowlery:

I read this really cool article that shed some light on the genetics of sexuality. This study found (in flies, mice, and humans) a gene that quantifies your attraction for males and a gene that quantifies your attraction towards females. So if this study is correct, your sexuality is basically a…

Posted Vor 25 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 52 Anmerkungen
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thyrsson:

"All these new terms are just making me confused.."

Do you even realize how fucking confused we would still be if they didn’t exist? We don’t feel like other sexualities and romantic orientations describe us, so obviously we need more of them. 

Posted Vor 26 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 55 Anmerkungen
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Demisexual. Wait, what is that? Here, let me explain.

221bsuperpotterwholocked:

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This is the flag for demisexuality. Not familiar with the term? Here’s a definition.

A demisexual is a person who does not experience sexual attraction unless they form a strong emotional connection with someone. It’s more commonly seen in but by no means confined to romantic…

Posted Vor 28 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 67 Anmerkungen
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My mom doesn't understand the term "demisexual" when I tried to explain it to her

tsukithewolf:

So I tried it a different way.

Being demisexual, in my opinion, is like looking at a piece of artwork and initially not finding it all that special. Yes, the colours are pretty. Or the design is attractive, but it’s still just…another piece of art.

But then you find out more about that artwork….

Posted Vor 28 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 53 Anmerkungen
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wingsdestiel:

I just love the idea of Sam explaining demisexuality to Dean. At first he doesn’t really get it, because he’s never heard of something like that before.

"Are you sure that’s a thing? Maybe you’re just weird."

"It’s a thing, Dean."

Dean looks uncomfortable, like he’s afraid this means he doesn’t know Sam as well as he thought he did. “You’ve had sex with strangers before.”

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Posted Vor 30 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 80 Anmerkungen
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mishamigos-minions:

I don’t know what I expected.

Posted Vor 31 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 90 Anmerkungen
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nabari-no-ow:

If you say you’re an Ace ally and then go and say “Demisexual isn’t a thing” I got news for you

you’re not an Ace ally.

Posted Vor 31 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 87 Anmerkungen
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What Demiromantic Means

yammyg123:

Hello friends, today I’m going to tell you a story about growing up as a demiromantic person.

The story starts with grade school me. I’m in fifth grade, and at the time, all of my friends (mostly female) were starting to get crushes on boys. All of a sudden, everyone liked someone, and I was…

Posted Vor 32 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 43 Anmerkungen
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http://corgisenpai.tumblr.com/post/94885317690/sex-is-like-a-huge-party-where-youre-told-that

corgisenpai:

Sex is like a huge party where you’re told that “everyone’s going to be there” but the people on the ace spectrum are just like

"I enjoy parties but I don’t need to go to them to have a good time."

"Eh. I’d rather do something else."

"I went to a party once. It wasn’t that great."

"Ugh, a…

Posted Vor 33 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 94 Anmerkungen
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http://corgisenpai.tumblr.com/post/94885317690/sex-is-like-a-huge-party-where-youre-told-that

corgisenpai:

Sex is like a huge party where you’re told that “everyone’s going to be there” but the people on the ace spectrum are just like

"I enjoy parties but I don’t need to go to them to have a good time."

"Eh. I’d rather do something else."

"I went to a party once. It wasn’t that great."

"Ugh, a…

Posted Vor 33 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 94 Anmerkungen
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"So I currently identify as pan/demi. But sometimes I feel asexual, or straight, etc. Is sexuality-fluidity a thing? Or does that fall under being pansexual?"

everyoneisgay:

- Question submitted by Anonymous

Posted Vor 37 Minuten on Sept. 17th with 163 Anmerkungen
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